Vivian De Milo: queer hard-femme-boi hot mess, descended from unicorns and jellyfish.
I am a survivor with PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Polyamorous, pansexual, pissed off, with a penchant for sweetness. Unhealthy, unmotivated, imperfect, vain, vulgar, and not sorry. I like kindness, kisses, cake, coffee, consent, cuties who kick ass, and cats. I'm into DIY, sewing, music, art, and trying to be a decent human being.
Pronouns: they, or v.

This is my personal blog. I do art & model, you can find my blogs for those things in the links below.
May 25th
9:43 PM

WEENIES IS ART

Okay babes, because I am super mature and I wanted to put off my to-do list a little longer…

WEENIES IS ART IS UP AND READY! (artweenies.tumblr.com) It is a blog dedicated solely to the finest, most creative and artistic weenie pictures. Help me make it big and exciting, submit, and spread the word!

April 30th
8:07 AM
Via
barefeetfullpitz:

vivianfreeland:

Sweet Cheeks

I’d like to date this drawing

Awww, that’s an awesome compliment! <3

barefeetfullpitz:

vivianfreeland:

Sweet Cheeks

I’d like to date this drawing

Awww, that’s an awesome compliment! <3

April 19th
11:12 PM
Via
vizzz:

based on a photograph of the flawless human viviandemilo and the theories of judith butler from gender trouble, which you can find as a full text PDF by clicking right here.

This is so awesome! &lt;3 and mmmm I really like that shade of green.

vizzz:

based on a photograph of the flawless human viviandemilo and the theories of judith butler from gender trouble, which you can find as a full text PDF by clicking right here.

This is so awesome! <3 and mmmm I really like that shade of green.

March 26th
12:12 AM
Glitter+leather patches! I&#8217;ll probably put some up on my etsy, does anyone have a special request?

Glitter+leather patches! I’ll probably put some up on my etsy, does anyone have a special request?

March 6th
10:31 PM

Tell me what to draw!

Hey lovely people, my PTSD got triggered earlier and I’m still pretty bummed out. It would really cheer me up if you guys gave me some cute/silly/fun/sexay/or-whatever-you-want idea’s to draw! I haven’t been doing enough art lately.

February 9th
9:33 PM
Via

Etsy

vivianfreeland:

I’m going to put a few pieces for sale in my etsy shop; I need to make me some monies. Does anyone have any suggestions or requests? I never know which ones people would want to buy!

Thanks in advance, loves!

<3 Viv

Help me pick guys, I don’t know which ones I should sell!

February 8th
1:31 AM
February 7th
8:17 PM
Via
apopelectric:

Merboy De Milo 
That’s it, I need a pair of pearl suspenders.

Eeeeeeee! This is awesome! &lt;3
I want those suspenders hella bad, too. With the little shell clips! So rad.

apopelectric:

Merboy De Milo 

That’s it, I need a pair of pearl suspenders.

Eeeeeeee! This is awesome! <3

I want those suspenders hella bad, too. With the little shell clips! So rad.

January 24th
1:27 AM
Via

galesofnovember:

theartofanimation:

Sayaka Ouhito

this artist so speaks to me. 

These are so soothing and inspiring. I want to live in them.

January 23rd
8:40 PM
Via
7:31 PM
Via
annmuddy:

beauty and her jealous sister

annmuddy:

beauty and her jealous sister

January 22nd
1:49 AM
Via
vivianfreeland:

Completed line art for a commission. To be colored shortly.

This is what I did today. My hand hurts, but I think it turned out nicely. Give me monies and I will draw you pretty things?

vivianfreeland:

Completed line art for a commission. To be colored shortly.

This is what I did today. My hand hurts, but I think it turned out nicely. Give me monies and I will draw you pretty things?

January 12th
6:03 PM

I put some art up in my favorite local coffee shop, Here Comes The Sun Coffee House (located in Montara). It opened about a month ago. The owners are seriously the sweetest, most adorable people ever. It’s my new favorite place to draw.

September 30th
5:36 PM
Via
ourdecay:


How Much is a Diamond Worth to You?

reality.

ourdecay:

How Much is a Diamond Worth to You?

reality.

September 4th
1:39 AM
Via

blackacrylic:

23.01.11

I had a really interesting discussion about identity, self hate, cultural capital etc with my BFF today and it got me thinking of Margaret Bowland’s selection of paintings of young black girls in white face. When asked to comment on ‘Kenyetta and Brianna’ Bowland that ‘It is a commentary on how women still have to jump through all these hoops to be desirable. These girls are still visible beneath all those layers of crap … they’re still looking back at you.’ I think that a lot of black girls looking at Bowland’s paintings would say that the metaphor transcends beyond the art world. For many black girls Bowland’s paintings are a life metaphor - reflecting a reality where black girls are often marginalised by European standards of beauty. I agree with Cherise Kramarae when she states that ‘For women of color who are viewers, trying to achieve idealised femininity entails not only adjusting or refining one’s body, but also rejecting one’s identity and certain characteristics altogether. To resist this artificial standard is to stand apart from beauty as defined by society’. The frustrating thing for me is that even if you put the fact that there is very little aesthetic diversity across all media platforms to the side, in the black community we impose European standards of beauty on each other with a vengeance. It’s black men that make fun of Alek Wek and it’s black girls arguing about natural hair v relaxer/weave war (e.g ‘These little nappy headed hoes need a perminator’ - Nicki Minaj) etc. It’s this infighting that is the real tragedy.

Somebody told a lie and we believed it.